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“When you show yourself to the world and display your talents, you naturally stir all kinds of resentment, envy, and other manifestations of insecurity. You cannot spend your life worrying about the petty feelings of others.”
Robert Greene
As the modern world increasingly exposes us to the criticism of others, it’s more important than ever to protect your energy and stay focused on your own actions.
Here are 10 tips for dealing with the haters.
1. Check in with your state of mind.
Our mental state has an enormous correlation with the meaning we assign to a given situation. To help create a positive outcome, ask yourself: What else could this mean? An errant comment mightn’t always be as harsh as it appears. For example, perhaps:
- The sender is battling some difficult things in their own life;
- Their comment (and underlying meaning) was communicated poorly;
- Your initial message was communicated poorly;
- You’re feeling more stressed than you thought and need to take better care of yourself; or
- It’s an opportunity to prove your resilience.
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“Most ‘gurus’ are just spewing bullshit and hoping that you’re a fly.” —Steve Maraboli